SONGS of the Land of Sunset [No. 47] "Our Mother!" [1859] ["Not Dead, But Gone Before!"] Duette. Words by Charles Henry Webb Music by J[oseph]. P[hilbrick]. Webster [1819-1875] Chicago, IL: H. M. HIGGINS, 117 Randolph St. Pearson [engravor] [Source: @Newberry Livrary, Chicago] H. M. HIGGINS Esqr. Dear Sir: I send you, as requested, the verses:— “Not dead, but gone before!” I will state the incident that caused them to be written, On the evening of the funeral of the late Mrs. S , of Ohio, all the family were gathered around her grave; three daughters placing flowers on the raised sod, while the father, leaning against a tree, standing near, exclaimed to the weeping children— “Weep not, she is not dead;— only gone before!” 1. We weep, yet tears, should have no place— Our mother did not die; The angels sigh’d for her embrace And took her to tthe sky. Earth has one loving spirit less, And heaven one angel more; Oh! write this of the name we bless: “Not dead, but gone before.” 2. The shroud, the pall, the gloomy state, Were all a deft device; The grave was but an em’rald gate That led to Paradise. And now our mother’s loving hand Waves from the golden shore— She calls us to the better land, Where she has “gone before.” 3. She whispers, “Lo, a loved one waits, My children weep the while;—” The angel of the pearly gates Will yield to mother’s smile, And hope the portals of the prayer Her loved ones to restore— They have a mother pleading there; “Not dead, but gone before.” 4. And oft, while woodlawn’s roses wave, Their incense to the air, We kneel above our mother’s grave, And breathe this simple prayer:— “Oh! leave our children not alone But leave us as of yore, And guide our footsteps by thy Home, Sweet mother gone before.”